tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post676014840431099690..comments2023-09-29T10:17:47.133+02:00Comments on Life Through Reflections...: The Concept Of Fear.Zuzanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02137958790178864561noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-36775474589118744482010-05-18T22:53:41.354+02:002010-05-18T22:53:41.354+02:00Life can be an adventure at any age, death is the ...Life can be an adventure at any age, death is the last great unknown, it' all about attitude.Vonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421069895155350144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-14310205578533250782010-04-19T20:10:25.805+02:002010-04-19T20:10:25.805+02:00Took me a while to find this; ironically it was pa...Took me a while to find this; ironically it was partly because of things going on here that could lead one to become fearful. I have been studying the concept of fear in the Bible lately. I was struck by how often God consoles us with "fear not," and then a reassurance of His love and care. Also, I noticed that "the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom" and got to thinking about how the less we fear God, the more we fear everything else. It is probably harder for you since you are there alone without "arms" to hug; but it helps to know you are not ever really alone. Cyber hugs (and real prayers) from me to you. :)Rosezilla (Tracie Walker)https://www.blogger.com/profile/12265953530935691847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-60091458389028857232010-04-17T13:37:42.140+02:002010-04-17T13:37:42.140+02:00It's always interesting to me that people whom...It's always interesting to me that people whom I think have it "all together" can have their own fears.<br />It seems no one can be totally fearless.<br />I, too, am fearful of flying(among other fears and anxieties), but know if the opportunity arose , I would jump on that plane(mabe have a little supply of medication to get me through the flight?)<br /><br />I hope one day(soon) you'll just "do it" and jump on that plane, too, Zuzana.Gal Fridayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00643821953484820115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-69634153066864175162010-04-16T13:22:56.569+02:002010-04-16T13:22:56.569+02:00Yes, fear changes with age.And your right Zuzana,F...Yes, fear changes with age.And your right Zuzana,Fear is a universal thing.<br />It's not always good to lose fear.For example: in my younger days I had a dread of Formal Job Interviews.I stuttered a bit;blushed;rambled etc etc. Sometimes I got the job\sometimes not.<br />It annoyed me, & i determinded to "do something about it". In later life I somehow became very relaxed in Interviews. My body language became the complete opposite.Good 'Eh? Only trouble was, I now often appeared so laid-back a flippant that the Interviewers often thought I wasnt really interested in getting the Job! Hey-Hoy!tonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03746435400444226665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-80378771886507516832010-04-16T12:00:48.481+02:002010-04-16T12:00:48.481+02:00Holly, Janine, Scribe, V and Hilary; I am very hap...Holly, Janine, Scribe, V and Hilary; I am very happy that you took the time to read through this a bit more contemplative piece; I appreciate so much that you shared with me your thoughts on this subject.;) <br /><br />To Hilary; thank you.;) I thought the other name started to sounds somewhat foolish by now.;)<br /><br />xoZuzanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02137958790178864561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-82982872372543797432010-04-15T05:18:05.848+02:002010-04-15T05:18:05.848+02:00Terrific post, Zuzana. Certainly we can all relate...Terrific post, Zuzana. Certainly we can all relate to walking that fine line between fear and courage. <br /><br />I see you have made some nice changes on your blog.. not the least of which is removing the "Protege" and replacing her with the real you. :)Hilaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12787493532006658679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-76891027600804030872010-04-15T04:29:31.713+02:002010-04-15T04:29:31.713+02:00Zuzanna,
I can so relate to this post. Off and on...Zuzanna,<br />I can so relate to this post. Off and on throughout my life (even as a small child), I have fought fear and anxiety. I can go long periods of calm, but then something will happen to shake me to the core and I will again feel like the timid, fearful child. My parents, in somewhat different ways, also suffered from anxiety, so it may well be that my biochemistry is geared that way. Of course, I may have just modeled what I grew up seeing in my home of origin. Maybe it isn't so important to know the cause, but I do struggle with this, sometimes not so much, but sometimes it has been disabling. I also especially hate to fly - because I am totally out of control, but I do force myself get out of my comfort zone most of the time. I am no spiritual giant, but I do lean on my faith to support me. It IS the only way to deal with an uncertain world--for me. I do believe that it is necessary to resist fear that has no basis and I use prayer and self talk to do this. It helps. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. V.Stickhorsecowgirlshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04167094045033324094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-52573003665699875992010-04-15T03:41:10.999+02:002010-04-15T03:41:10.999+02:00This was one of your more powerful pieces of writi...This was one of your more powerful pieces of writing. Very poignant.Cat in the roadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08750991796476172718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-48381027443553440002010-04-14T23:50:09.399+02:002010-04-14T23:50:09.399+02:00You are so very, very wise! And I simply LOVE the...You are so very, very wise! And I simply LOVE the words of Nelson Mandela...what an inspiration he is! Your new profile photo is beautiful as well! Hope you are having a wonderful week! ~Janine XOSniffles and Smileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10073156486641622612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-83743928600211286522010-04-14T21:51:44.952+02:002010-04-14T21:51:44.952+02:00What a wonerful post. Beautifully written! I enjoy...What a wonerful post. Beautifully written! I enjoy your insight about so many things. :)Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14344710994135239866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-68087971933066081972010-04-14T18:23:34.533+02:002010-04-14T18:23:34.533+02:00Rajesh, Denise, Brian, Philip, Betsy, Donna, Jean ...Rajesh, Denise, Brian, Philip, Betsy, Donna, Jean (welcome), Claudia, Zuzu, sprinkles, LadyCat, Ji, Dan, Jeanne, C, BPG, Stevie, Kath and Jill, thank you so much for taking the time to read this somewhat candid, but hopefully inspiring post.<br /><br />I enjoyed greatly your take on the concept of fear and the way it effects us at times. And I love your positive outlook, which I hope comes across from my writing here as well. Your lovely comments are always a joy for me to read.<br /><br />Xoxo,<br />ZuzanaZuzanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02137958790178864561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-67167275235530903752010-04-14T16:08:01.219+02:002010-04-14T16:08:01.219+02:00Oh Zuzana...such a well thought out post!! You are...Oh Zuzana...such a well thought out post!! You are right, as we get older we do become more realistic about the dangers that are "out there." But, I do agree with Brian in that we must NOT let our fear limit us.<br /><br />Let's be courageous! And plunge on in life! <br /><br />Fantastic post/topic!Jill from Killeny Glenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13639521470702814007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-57277620309584382192010-04-14T15:35:50.263+02:002010-04-14T15:35:50.263+02:00I loved that book "Feel the fear and do it an...I loved that book "Feel the fear and do it anyway". I try to make myself do something outside my comfort zone as often as I can. Without exception, these "risks" have paid off, whether it be driving to an unknown town, or tackling new, where I fear failure.Kathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04003521059890699861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-72568797218000718442010-04-14T14:35:51.235+02:002010-04-14T14:35:51.235+02:00In my twenties my husband worked at night. I hated...In my twenties my husband worked at night. I hated it when he would leave the house in the dark...I would lay awake all night scared of who might be lurking outside in the dark. The slightest noise would spook me. Many nights I would not be able to sleep until the sky began to get light. I'm been so thankful that this same fear no longer rules my life. <br /><br />I do believe that as we get older, we begin to understand that there are no guarantees in life and fears begin to creep in.steviewrenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14233066158555762167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-28186785709278491002010-04-14T13:37:12.138+02:002010-04-14T13:37:12.138+02:00What a great post, and who can't relate in som...What a great post, and who can't relate in some way? I'm more fearful in some ways than I was when I was young, and more resigned in others. The Mandela quote is so true. And I do believe that when we share our fears, they disipate. Hugs... xoxoGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03436539725605367511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-19959574751556675832010-04-14T03:00:18.034+02:002010-04-14T03:00:18.034+02:00Had I been expecting it when it happened, I would ...Had I been expecting it when it happened, I would have predicted that my major feeling upon my husband's walking out would have been hurt or rejection. Those were there, of course, but the overwhelming emotion I felt was fear. As I have progressed in this most recent journey, I have conquered more than I ever dreamed I would be able to do. But I--like you--fear more as I age. And, now that I feel "alone," it seems enhanced. Still, there was nothing to do but face it and do it. So far I have. It has been a growing process and, certainly, I have become a more defined person than I was before. So, facing fear: I would never choose it, would still avoid it if I could, but I do recognize its value. Thanks for a great post. CStickhorsecowgirlshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04167094045033324094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-11156831179249442452010-04-13T20:13:15.425+02:002010-04-13T20:13:15.425+02:00I recognise quite a few of your phobias in myself ...I recognise quite a few of your phobias in myself Zuzana and have become fearful of some things with age and yet in other respects I feel less guarded and more brave! I flew to Australia on my own in my twenties (AND stayed for almost a year!) although I had friends out there to welcome me. I couldn't do that again - I can just about cope with a short flight to Europe these days!<br /><br />I too dislike enclosed spaces and crowds - strange for a girl who grew up in a crowded city.<br /><br />You have certainly opened a debate here my friend - thank you for this profound and candid post.<br /><br />Jeanne xxReading Tea Leaveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16928999793157507134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-69808008410962538932010-04-13T19:13:34.631+02:002010-04-13T19:13:34.631+02:00Hi Zuzana
I think what you say about collecting fe...Hi Zuzana<br />I think what you say about collecting fears along the way as you move through life is very true. I'm not sure if mine are fears or worries, and maybe a bit of both mixed in together - especially whilst lying awake in the early hours of the morning!<br />I think fear has also heightened with the reporting of events in the media nowadays - if you want to worry and fear less, stop watching the news!<br />Another great post from you, and certainly food for thought.<br />Best wishes<br />Dan<br />-x-Danhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00670407627249157371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-851233586246724552010-04-13T19:08:46.437+02:002010-04-13T19:08:46.437+02:00words of wisdom,
what inspirational post!words of wisdom,<br />what inspirational post!Linda Bob Grifins Korbetis Hallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01546696605935159862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-17942858620773657572010-04-13T18:48:07.829+02:002010-04-13T18:48:07.829+02:00Fear is very powerful, but we give it the power. I...Fear is very powerful, but we give it the power. It is hard to take that power back, but definetly is possible. Thank you for a very thought provoking post today. Wishing you sweet slumber : )Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-18168817106305891592010-04-13T17:44:42.310+02:002010-04-13T17:44:42.310+02:00My biggest fear at the moment is that I'm goin...My biggest fear at the moment is that I'm going to lose my house if I can't find a job within the next few weeks.<br /><br />I also fear spiders and snakes.sprinkleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09081967372702276914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-77001028125374290372010-04-13T17:18:03.967+02:002010-04-13T17:18:03.967+02:00I felt more fear when I thought "I" was ...I felt more fear when I thought "I" was in control of my life. Turns out, I cannot possibly control it all, and the fear has lifted. Very freeing, and instead of worrying about what's coming next, I embrace it!<br />Hugs for you, Zuzana!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-43584419408671406452010-04-13T17:17:59.610+02:002010-04-13T17:17:59.610+02:00Profound post Zuzana!
I am scared of so much, I a...Profound post Zuzana! <br />I am scared of so much, I always try to avoid the subject so that I don't get myself in that hole of desperation and deep thinking that always lead me to the worst of my fears: death. Since we are still in a work week, I better stop thinking about all of this, and not go deep into it; I know where it leads me. I hope I can be courageous one day though, and be brave and a confront fear. Now, nevertheless, is a young process,and I have a long way to go.<br />have a good day!<br />*hugs*Claushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06803540562431030465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-7910703176117244762010-04-13T17:17:59.201+02:002010-04-13T17:17:59.201+02:00Profound post Zuzana!
I am scared of so much, I a...Profound post Zuzana! <br />I am scared of so much, I always try to avoid the subject so that I don't get myself in that hole of desperation and deep thinking that always lead me to the worst of my fears: death. Since we are still in a work week, I better stop thinking about all of this, and not go deep into it; I know where it leads me. I hope I can be courageous one day though, and be brave and a confront fear. Now, nevertheless, is a young process,and I have a long way to go.<br />have a good day!<br />*hugs*Claushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06803540562431030465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6784042461030289587.post-235153617338110022010-04-13T15:50:37.733+02:002010-04-13T15:50:37.733+02:00Que j'aime ces deux photos !
La lumière est ma...Que j'aime ces deux photos !<br />La lumière est magnifique !Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13067091715480138027noreply@blogger.com